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Arik Armstead

Arik Armstead/Instagram

Arik Armstead isn’t paid to be soft on the football field, but the San Francisco 49ers star tells PEOPLE he and his teammates love embracing that side of their personalities when they’re spending time together off of the gridiron.

“I play football, so it’s a lot of testosterone and a lot of masculine ego and energy, and all that around, so when I come home and get to be a dad, I get to be softer and I enjoy that side,” Armstead, 29, says. The NFL player shares two daughters, Amiri, 2, and Ayla, 1, with his wife Melinda.

Embracing that softer side off of the field has been a valuable bonding tool for his teammates as well.

“There’s a lot of dads on the team. I get to see a different side of my teammates too, and being dads. It’s a lot of fun.”

Arik Armstead

Most recently, Armstead invited his teammates and their families over for Memorial Day. “I had some of teammates and their families over. We have a bounce house that’s set up in our living room for the girls.”

“We set up the bounce house, we have a pool, and it was a blast,” says Armstead. “Spending time with his teammates “in that element” has been “a lot of fun” for the father of two.

His foundation, the Arik Armstead Project, was founded in 2019. According to the organization’swebsite, the project “provides youth with positive spaces, tools, and academic support” in Sacramento and the Bay Area of California.

Armstead says his driving focus for the foundation is to “provide opportunities for people who don’t have them.”

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Having his own kids has further fueled Armstead’s desire to make a difference.

“I started it before I had kids, so now I even see the more relevance and importance of it, having kids and seeing how big, obviously, a role that we play in their lives, and that how hard it is to do it on your own. It takes a big community to raise children in the right manner.”

source: people.com